Look Isaac,
What do you mean where we are taking the stuff. Who is we, Who is we, and where are you going?
I will bring the police with me, please don't try to block me from entering.
Since your mother died last summer, you've made it ABUNDANTLY CLEAR that you are using me as a part-time back-scratcher and bed-warmer. Also that you see your marriage as an afterthough. Mid-life crisis? See rough timeline below.